Wednesday 17 September 2014

Love or Arranged

Like most of the girls I grew up dreaming of finding the prince charming and fantasizing about true love. Always tried to find my perfect man in every guy I met, I never had much of a checklist for the perfect guy, like some of us but looked for someone who was financially secure and had a status in the society. Though I missed out on something called true love.  But mostly I fell for romance and flattery. Now when it’s the time to actually dive in even I am fed  up of my infatuations.  My parents have the line up of suitable guys ready. Although I am okay with idea of arranged marriage but somewhere living life with a random stranger makes me nervous. On the positive side I feel  someone  from your caste, your religion and your background and with parental approval can make things much easier in the longer run. Most of us are certain that our parents cant be the best people to choose our life partner but looking at my failed relationships I have to give it a shot. Maybe  I find that spark in someone they choose for me. Looking  forward to it as a platform to meet someone interesting. Marriage is a life time commitment but arranged marriage comes with deeper understanding , love and respect  not only between the couple but the two families. My parents had an arranged marriage and for me they are the happiest couple.  So I am hopeful to find my eternal happiness in someone they choose for me. 

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